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Posts Tagged: discernment

Evesdropping #5 |How are your |relationships?

[tweetmeme source=trcoaching only_single=false]Last week Eve spoke of “envy” of what others had that she didn’t and how it made her feel. This week’s session she started out stating how grateful she was with what she did have. Eve is becoming more of who she is and less of what others may have wanted her to be or her past illusion of herself. “Envy is a symptom of lack of appreciation of our own uniqueness and self worth. Each of us has ... Read more

Do you start| running |when you are |afraid?

[tweetmeme source=trcoaching only_single=false] We generate FEAR while we sit. We can overcome it by “ACTION”. Fear is natures warning to get busy and “GET GOING”! My intuition knows where to “GO”. When were you really gripped by fear? I don’t mean the kind of fear that strikes you when someone cuts you off in traffic and you were sure to hit them but diverted just in time. But that kind of fear that left you feeling like pulling the covers over your head forever. I have ... Read more

10| “energizing”| habits| #5 You are what you |eat…

[tweetmeme source=trcoaching only_single=false] I was reading a list of healthy habits that may be helpful so figured I will list them for you. Make social connections - funny this was last week’s new addition #4 to my 10 energizing habits! I always have had them but the ones I wanted, were not in my periphery. I connected with 7 of my pals that I had not for some weeks and in some cases some months. It felt really good. I am so glad ... Read more

Evesdropping #4| “Envy| is the art of… “

[tweetmeme source=trcoaching only_single=false] “Envy is the art of counting the other fellows blessings instead of our own.” Harold Coffin Eve started off the session with an important statement for her. “I have wasted too much time crying over things that I wouldn’t have done different! I am good the way I am.” After our last session I gave Eve a cd of music. On it are all female vocalists with some very powerful songs. A couple of them had lyrics that really ... Read more

Do you have a| point of view| or are you living in the |grey zone?

[tweetmeme source=trcoaching only_single=false] When I was in primary school, I had a simplistic view of what I knew.  Things were black or white, right or wrong. My view was that I was wrong and my parents were right until I was right and they were wrong. As a young teen mixed up in an adult world, things became very confusing.  My point of view became a resounding grey. I could no longer define black or white, right or wrong as ... Read more

I have |learned|…who’s |fault| I am!

[tweetmeme source=trcoaching only_single=false] I don’t know about you, but I could sit in blame for where I am and how I got here. A life based on my childhood, situations, friends, spouses and children along with some baffling belief of lack of choice had to be someone’s fault, didn’t it? I was pointing my finger at some else…anyone else. I must be right, no? My back ground is full of many lives. One I had as a child in a ... Read more

10 things to throw out…

[tweetmeme source=trcoaching only_single=false] There are lots of things I have worked on pitching. Some I have been successful at and others...well you know, they take a lot longer and more attention. Here are a few I have been working on, some a LONG time. 1) Resentment- Do you know that the only one who is affected by this is you? This does suck! We spend all that energy for days, weeks and sometimes even years and what do we get? Bitter! Let it ... Read more

Do you take the left or the RIGHT road?

[tweetmeme source=trcoaching only_single=false]  Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." ~ Mark Twain This is the great conundrum, to continue doing what you do to pay the bills. Keep providing the life you promised to your family or to do what you have always dreamed of. ... Read more

10 “energizing” |habits| #3 |Daily| good deeds!

[tweetmeme source=trcoaching only_single=false] Week three begins! First I must confess that week #2 did not go quite as planned. I figured that I would be well into the book “a Purpose Driven Life” by now but alas, I am not. Not that I haven’t been reading it and other things, I am just not that into the book. I really believe in ones “Life Purpose” I have one myself after all! It’s just that there is lots of religious content ... Read more

Give |peace| a chance.

[tweetmeme source=trcoaching only_single=false]  I didn’t know what peace really meant. When I was young it meant a very small portion of something as there were eight of us to share and as kids our piece was always small. I figured out the difference as I grew up. As a teen it came in the saying “Peace, man”. There was “give peace a chance” that John Lennon said in the 60’s, from a bed holed up in the Queen Elizabeth Hotel with ... Read more
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